Yup, that is exactly how I was thinking you had it. You want to pull fields from one websites database and display them on a completely different site and have them update dynamically when you add/modify your content. this is defiantly not a simple task nor an ACF issue. This is one of the reasons WP multisite installs exist. There are other ways this can be accomplished but the question doesn’t belong on the ACF forum.
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