You can do this using the clone fields. You create a field group that has all of the fields for a layout. These fields are not in flex fields, they are just fields. The you create a field group with a flex field for each different place you want the flex field and you create layouts, the layouts all have a single field and that is a clone field where you clone all of the fields of your other groups.
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