I think you’re using the wrong section in WPAI. WPAI should be showing you the field groups attached to the post type and supplying a special field for the relationship field import. This content cannot be imported using the standard custom fields section of the import. You’re issue is with WPAI. Their support staff is extremely helpful and you should contact them about issues that you are having with their plugin.
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