This is my filter that works
function filter_relationship_acf_scope_pages( $args, $field, $post_id ) {
$args = [
'post_type' => 'page',
'meta_query' => [
[
'key' => '_wp_page_template',
'value' => 'tpl-scope.php',
]
]
];
return $args;
}
add_filter('acf/fields/relationship/query/key=field_5f1b0571deda4', 'filter_relationship_acf_scope_pages', 10, 3);