That is the format that ACF stores date/time fields in the database. The formatting options for a date/time field set in ACF will only work if you use the ACF function to get and display the field data.
You need to talk to the authors of the plugin you’re using to show the content of fields and see if they have any way to alter the display format of custom fields.
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