https://www.advancedcustomfields.com/resources/acf-prepare_field/
// add filter using field key, change to your tab field's key
add_filter('acf/prepare_field/key=field_123456', 'custom_tab_format', 20);
function custom_tab_format($field) {
// see if other field has value
if (get_field('other_field_name')) {
$field['label'] = '<strong>'.$field['label'].'</strong>';
}
return $field;
}