I’m a little confused at why setting the post status using acf/fields/post_object/query. The first think ACF does in this function is call wp_parse_args($args, $defaults). Since post_status of any is a default value, is should not override the status that you set in your filter. If this is causing the post object field to get no results it seems like there should be something else causing it.
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