You need to create an acf/save_post filter https://www.advancedcustomfields.com/resources/acf-save_post/ something like this.
add_filter('acf/save_post', 'my_copy_date_filter', 20);
// priority is 20 so that it runs after acf has saved the value
function my_copy_date_filter($post_id) {
$post_type = get_post_type($post_id);
if ($post_type != 'eveniment') {
// not our post type, bail early
return;
}
$date = get_field('data_incepe', $post_id);
update_post_meta($post_id, 'calendar_data', $date);
}