The problem is not with ACF, the problem is that multiple joins to the postmeta table slow WP down, and the fix that WP put in for this does not really fix the problem. Here is the current ticket for this I believe https://core.trac.wordpress.org/ticket/30044
If you do a search for “multiple meta queries slow down wp” you might find some possible solutions.
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